Solaleh is not a good choice if you:
* To change the behavior of children, follow quick and immediate and temporary solutions (such as punishment, rewards, deprivation, etc.).
* Want your child to only focus and progress in one area and one aspect at a time.
* Want to match your child's being with your dreams, not what they themselves are.
* Prioritise other aspects of your life over upbringing children (such as work and etc).
* Always want to argue with your child with logic and advice.
* Expect positive changes from children but are not willing to make any change in yourselves.
* Always want everything to be provided for your child and believe that she shouldn't bear any pain or hardship.
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- Solaleh is a proper choice if you:
* Instead of short-term and unstable solutions such as reward and punishment, pay attention to follow more effective and long term solutions.
* Think about the personal thoughts of children and their unique personality, respecting their individuality and comparing them not with others but with themselves.
* believe in the importance of the parents role in raising and developing a balanced child and are willing to believe and cooperate with the school in this field.
* consider the education and development of a child to be comprehensive.
* Give children the opportunity to experience some difficulties and hardships, believing that through these hardships they will become stronger and healthier.
* Believe that school years have a big impact on identity formation.
* Think that learning processes and skills is more important than just memorising and remembering.
* Pick pedagogy over education for your child.
Solaleh Javan Girls Elementary School...
Children are unique individuals—people who, although shorter in stature than adults, possess dreams and potential that are, if not greater, at least just as remarkable.
